Yes you who are unmarried, dating or not, or in a relationship...this is for you!
So you're dating, meeting new guys or meeting a new lady...cool and it's nothing wrong with that. You go on a couple of dates and decide to exclusively see each other According to you both, well at least in your mind, everything is going good and dandy and then brakes are applied because someONE wants boundaries. Boundaries? Yes. The dictionary defines Boundaries as this: something that indicates limits or a line. Yes...in the heat of the moment the one you're "seeing" , "dating" or "talking" to wants to not only discuss sex, but have sex.
Sex?...The act of intimate intercourse between a male and female. Your body is saying yes but your standards and your spirit saying no...are you listening? Do you stay? Do you go? Do you do or let them go?
There's now a battle. He's a "good guy", but not a godly guy...if he doesn't respect your values and body he's just good but not godly.
She's a "great girl", but not godly because she intended to tempt you into having sex with her...she wanted her security in the sex you give her.
What do you do? Well, did you know that it is never too late to live purely? Did you know that it is never too late to have standards? God's GRACE is sufficient enough for you even in your weaknesses. The choice is up to you...it is possible to be PURE IN THE PROCESS. Sex is honorable between man and woman who are MARRIED...WAIT until then...and even then sex is not what marriage is all about...and that's a whole new blog and discussion.
Will he call you names outside of what you mama named you, probably. Will she say you're no good and possibly gay? Maybe. Will they leave you because you are so called "up tight"? Probably so, but that does NOT define who you are and WHOSE you are. KNOW your value and your worth! Know that God had SomeONE who will wait WITH you because they respect God, themselves and you. Be found guilty of being PURE and one with STANDARDS.
#Ladies: just because you decide NOT to have sex with the guy you are "talking" to or "dating" does not make you PATHETIC. You are POWERFUL for having morals and standards. You are POWERFUL because you choose to live PURELY! It does not make you less than or better than...it makes you, YOU.
#Men: be NOT ashamed of having values and morals. So what the girl thinks you're gay because you won't kiss her or even attempt to take her bed after a few dates...trust there will be one will love you for it! Wait to have Sex until marriage...go through the process of purity while dating. It may be rare and uncommon, but risk having that label than being called a player or pimp! Be guilty of being PURE. #PurityInTheProcessPoetry&MyStory #GetYourCopyToday